Tuesday, January 30, 2007

011 Hector and Billy in Miami



I just spent two nights at a huge house in West-Miami. It belongs to an older gay couple I had met in march last year. They were passengers on my second Belgium and Holland trip and were, together with a lady from St-Petersburg, some of the most memorable people of the year. They were really fond of having me over, as at the same time they also had the program director from their Tuscany trip over. I didn’t meet her as she is away for a few days, doing some sightseeing in Florida. And I leave to Puerto Rico tomorrow!

The house is amazing! Incredible. If you ever get to see the movie clip I made with my camera, ask for it. I can’t post it here on the blog. It has four bathrooms I guess. I am sleeping in one of the several guest rooms, with my own bathroom. They have a huge kitchen, a huge bar (inside and outside), a huge everything.. I think interior design stores love them.. Oh, you know the kind of house I’m talking about. You watch that show on MTV at times too. Crips or whatever it is called. It’s that kind of house. I love it. I really absolutely love this place. They have piano that they never use and a swimming pool. I wanted to take a dip but it’s too cold here. Yes, even in Miami it’s cold(er).

Billy is a Montana born artist from New York who still paints (I really like his portraits, not so much his flowers) and who made money in real estate. Hector is a Cuban born psychologist who also taught at the university of Miami. They are such a sweet couple. I had already mentioned them to a lot of people, because I assumed they had been together for 40 years. But I must have misunderstood. They know each other for 40 years, but didn’t become a couple until 20 years ago when both of their partners died. They are just so amazing together. It’s funny. It’s a typical couple though with one person being a bit more dominant and the other more easy. They do ‘fight’ at times, but they seem very happy together and they spoil me rotten. Hehe. Hector is 72 and Billy 66.

For my b-day they took me to this Australian steakhouse where I got a well done butterfly steak (they just cut the steak open so it’s thinner and has the shape of a butterfly). Very good steak! Then I got a b day cake with a very short b day song by the staff. Very kitsch and very American, like we do on the ships, but I actually liked it. Not so much the cake though, which was a typical US mix of brownies and cream. No candles. We talked until late at night at their inside ‘bar’ drinking Puerto Rican Bacardi rum (and that for a Cuban!). They are just a real interesting couple. I didn’t want to ask too many personal questions, but I couldn’t help asking some details. They didn’t mind.

Next day was actually real nice. First I slept quiet long, with day long comments as a result of course. Hector sounded like me dad, disapproving of my sleeping so long. Then we went to La Caretta, a Cuban joint where a had some beef stew with beans and rice. It was delicious! I couldn’t eat my plate again and felt very guilty as it was so good. But I didn’t ask a doggy bag. Then we had to rush (no time to digest the food) to a shopping mall where they had a theatre. Billy and Hector love movies and we went to see Notes Of A Scandal with Oscar nominees Judi Dench and Cate Blanchett. I knew little of the movie. And it’s better if you do too, before you go see it. *** spoiler ahead *** I just thought it was a movie about a teacher having sex with one of her students. But it’s so much more. It’s basically about a lonely (lesbian?) spinster who’s obsessions for a new friendship is compulsive. It was a scary movie actually. I definitely recommend the movie!!!!

The rest of the day was more of the same. Another shopping mall and another one. Not sure why they wanted to take me to the malls, but it was fun. One mall is called the Falls mall and has some little artificial waterfalls. I guess that’s the only thing in West Miami close to a sightseeing. Still, I liked the whole day. Driving around Miami Dade County, looking at the houses, the typical billboard shops around the alternative highways. And I liked the company. I am happy to see that gay couples can grow up old together and be happy. I am also happy that Stevao sent me a birthday sms.

Monday, January 29, 2007

010 Stand Up Comedy

A friend of Jayte works for A&E, arts and entertainment. It’s a popular showbiz channel on television. He invited us to a vip table at Caroline’s, a comedy club on Broadway and 50th street. I liked the idea of going to a nyc comedy club, even though I had never heard of the star of the night, Paul Mooney.

The opener of the night was very funny. I guess I understood 90 of the jokes. I had some trouble knowing what she was referring too and her character is drunk so she mumbled a lot. She was fun though. I liked her a lot. Very cynical and sarcastic, although her victims were easy: Paris Hilton, Lindsay Lohan, George W. Bush. I forgot the jokes, I forgot her name. But she was hilarious.

Paul Mooney on the other hand was more difficult to digest. He’s an African American who had issues with the ‘white folks’. The vast majority of the crowd was African American or Black American as you have to call them now and I guess he was on a roll talking bad about ‘the white folks’ as that got a lot of cheers. He didn’t really care that I was sitting in front of him. He never gave me any look. He was funny though as he didn’t only laugh with the white folk, but also with his fellow black guys (he clearly had a problem with Oprah Winfrey), the Chinese, the Mexicans. Too bad he didn’t laugh with the gays, the Jews, the Muslims and handicapped. He was pretty nasty though and I sensed a lot of frustration and anger in his jokes. Especially at the end, where he almost gave a political speech and noticed that the crowd wasn’t laughing anymore. Larry, the guy who works for A&E was going to confront him with that. At the end of the show, I really didn’t know if he wanted to be funny or if he really hated the ‘white folks’. All I know is that a white stand up comedian could never get away with a night black bashing.

He releases a new dvd: Jesus is black. Example: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9HpnMdzEp7s&NR

Jayte took me to two of his favourite bars in Manhattan. I didn’t like them. They were empty (it was still freezing) and the music sucked big time. I expected a little bit more cool in New York. But I’m sure I went to the ‘wrong’ places. I so much hope I don’t have to work in June and can join my friends on their trip to NYC. I really love this place.

009 American Idol and the Strand

I stayed at home for the most of the day, watching some television, a very addictive thing in the states. There was this 60 minutes special on CNN about the harsh judgements of American Idol. I saw the two episode that they were referring to. Especially the auditions in Memphis and New York were hilarious! I thought that was the funniest tv of the year! I’ll see if I can add some you tube fragments. I’m not a fan of American Idol, BUT I do love the audition episodes. http://www.americanidol.com/videos/view/?vid=503

I headed to the city at around 6 pm or so and went shopping in Soho! Dangerous! I didn’t have much cash money with me, fortunately, but there were plenty of things I liked. I got of at Prince Street, walked a bit south, but then walked up north again along Broadway. There was this one t shirt I wanted to buy: ‘Can’t we all just get along’ with the symbol of the new religion (a mix of the Jewish/Christian/Muslim symbols). But then I thought that was a bit too PC.

I ended up at the Strand, which is the biggest bookstore in NYC. More than 18.000 books, that’s how they advertise. I had big expectations, but was a bit disappointed. It’s big, but De Slegte in Amsterdam isn’t that much smaller really. The Strands is a phenomenon though. You can find new books 20 percent cheaper than anywhere else. There are a lot of books, sure, but they have 20 copies of one book. If not more. They do have a lot of second hand book and I did spent 60 dollars on books and 90 minutes of my time there, but I just expected more of the biggest bookstore in NYC, the US and hence The World. I bought another book of Bill Bryson, a new 2007 guidebook of Belize, a book on travel writing, a book on life in the middle ages, … I also bought a gift for Jayte: a new biography of Elisabeth Taylor, one of his idols. The art/movie/music section is of course very big. After all this is New York. Tom, if you go to the store, check out the reference department. They have cool books you will like. Like a small dictionary which explains names of cities and areas. I didn’t have anything to put my books in, so I ended up buying a cool shoulder bag. I also bought a Strand t-shirt to wear at the beach.

008 I Love New York

I’d love to live in New York for a while. Preferably Manhattan, but Brooklyn is okay too. The place where I’m staying at is located in south Brooklyn and it takes about 45 minutes to get to Manhattan. Actually, I spent more than an hour getting to Manhattan (walking to metro station, taking two metro trains, walking to where I had to be).. I realised Wevelgem isn’t that bad. It only takes me 20 minutes longer to get to Brussels. However, not for 2 dollars.

Staying in Brooklyn and commuting to Manhattan made me feel a bit like I was in London, where you also have to live far away to get an affordable room. Jayte pays 975 dollars/month for a two room apartment with kitchen, living room and bathroom. He has to spend at least 45 minutes to get to his office, if not more. It’s a nice apartment in a quiet neighbourhood, but a bit far off. Today, I also went to a place in Chelsea, the gay neighbourhood in Midtown Manhattan. A small studio with so little room that they had to cut out a part of the wall to place a refrigerator, costs more than 2000 dollar per month! It wasn’t the nicest area in Chelsea, but it was close to the coolest area. But it was small man! Maybe 30 square meter in total. The small size wouldn’t matter much to me, but the rent! Hello! 2000 dollar!

The place I visited in Chelsea belongs to a pet groomer. For all those who don’t know what that is (I didn’t either): a pet groomer is basically a dog stylist who washes them, cuts their hair and makes them look as pretty as their bosses. This guy isn’t just an ordinary groomer, but a celebrity pet groomer. He ‘does’ the hair of the dogs of P. Diddy for instance. I didn’t meet the guy, I went there to meet my buddy Sean, who flew in from Atlanta for a weekend in NYC. And Sean was there because a friend of him was house sitting the apartment. I had a great time meeting him again. He looked happier, healthier and … heavier than ever before! No offence Sean. You looked good.

Before heading back to Brooklyn I visited two areas in Manhattan that I really like. First Chelsea. I had never been there before, but I definitely recommend walking down 8th avenue from 23 to 14 street. It’s a gay neighbourhood, but there’s a lot of cool restaurants and some nice shops. I especially liked the kitsch selling gift shops. There’s a lot of bars, but I was there around 8 pm so they were empty. I always thought NYC was boring for gay people as I had only been to Greenwich village before and that was a bore. But now I know where the bars are!

I decided to walk around in NYC. It was much less cold today than yesterday and I just love walking around in Manhattan. I didn’t care to see sightseeings as they are, well, like.. boring. But I just love walking around there. I passed the flatiron building, which isn’t illuminated at night. And I walked to the east side where I walked down 3rd avenue to end up at my favourite place of New York: St Marks Place. That’s the name for 8th street and the old hippie neighbourhood of the city. It’s very touristy now, with lots of stands selling souvenirs and – this time of the year – lots of hats and scarves. But you also still have cool second hand record stores (2,99 for ALL single compact discs) and an excellent second hand bookstore, where I bought a book of Bill Bryson, the travel writer a friend of mine and some passengers of mine told me I sound like! I didn’t stay long there as Jayte had made dinner for me and I had to head home, but I might go back there just to buy some funny t-shirts. Cool place!

I had fun today, just by walking around in New York and looking at people and having the feeling I belonged there. I really love New York. There’s something special about the place. I really feel very comfortable here and I can really imagine living here. So much to do! I had a great time with my friends, but I also had a great time looking at the people around me on the street, in the subway, in the shops… I met some models (or wannabe models) on the subway. I wanted to tell them how ugly I thought they were. So anorexic! They were both eating raisins. I guess that was their main course of the day. I so much felt like telling them a new study proved raisins make people fat. I also saw a few extravagant homeless people / beggars. One was this super tall Ru-Paul like dirty drag queen in ragged clothes. I also love the musicians in the subway. One played this open drum. I should have taken a picture of it, because I can’t describe it. But I thought it was amazing what sounds he got out of it. I also love the mixture of people and languages. I sometimes think everyone is an immigrant here.

The roommate of Jayte, Rick, is also cool. He’s an aspiring scriptwriter/actor from Italian descent. Doesn’t have the looks of Joey though, but I just had to think of Joey when I heard his stories. He is now an ‘extra’ on the set of a new Will Smith movie of which some scenes are being shot at the Brooklyn bridge. The movie synopsis sounds stupid: Smith has found a cure for cancer, but when everyone is injected they turn into vampires! As I said: stupid. They need more than 500 extra’s for an evacuation scene. They shoot it in six days! Six nights basically, in this cold. Rick isn’t staying on the set. There’s so many extra’s that they don’t really notice if you’re there or not. He goes in when they start shooting, then leaves the set and goes back to sign out. (he has a friend on the set who lets him know). It would have been cool to have gone to the set though. Apparently Will Smith entertains the crowd while they are waiting outside. And apparently lots of people there are homeless. They get 78 bucks a day! Can you imagine? 78 bucks a day, six days longs! I want to be an extra too. Now I understand how Joey could live in that apartment. (Jayte just spoiled this joke by saying extra’s sometimes only have one shoot per month)

I can imagine living here and meeting all these semi-artistic folk. People aren’t as friendly as in Annapolis though. Nobody is looking in your eyes. They all look straight ahead or down to the ground. Except in Chelsea of course and on 3rd Avenue when I did have some nice eye contact. I was too tired to go out tonight. But I really had a nice day today. Yeah, I really love New York.

Saturday, January 27, 2007

007 Brooklyn & Manhattan & Alvin Ailey

Jayte lives in Brooklyn, one of the five boroughs of New York. The part of Brooklyn where he lives is okay. I immediately felt very safe. It’s a very Jewish neighbourhood too. It was strange. I immediately felt at home yesterday night when I arrived. I thought: cool, I’m in New York! The idea alone was very exciting. But today, I’m feeling a bit less excited. One: it’s fucking cold! It’s freezing, some 15 degrees Fahrenheit or so. I’ve never walked around in much colder weather and it annoys me. I wanted to visit Williamsburg, as that is named the new Soho with cool shops and galleries. I am walking around with an old guide book which is very outdated. The Williamsburg culture museum is torn down for instance. I had walked some 15 minutes trying to find that building in the freezing cold. I only ended up taking a picture of the Williamsburg bridge and the view over Manhattan. I talked to one of those Hasidic Jews, who was actually quite friendly, and also to a younger wannabe rock star who does something with computers for a living. He did rave about Williamsburg, but it was just not the moment to visit the area. Especially since it was also early morning.

I then took the subway to the Metropolitan Museum of Art. I didn’t make the same mistake as in Washington so I visited those sections which could show me something I hadn’t seen yet. It’s a huge museum, which shows all kinds of art from all over the world. I especially liked the music instrument museum and the modern art section. Again, a painting by Pollock took me by surprise. Maybe I should see that movie with Ed Harris to get to know the artist a bit more. There were several pieces of art that I liked and I didn’t get bored in the museum at all. A must! One strange thing: the admission price is ‘suggested’, which is stupid. They suggest 20 dollars. I gave 10. I don’t even know why I gave ten, I normally always try to get in for free and now that I could just skip paying, I did. It reminded me of Homer Simpson who visits one of those ‘suggested admission’ museums and dropped in a penny.

I walked across Central Park which looked dead and headed to the Museum of Natural History, a bit inspired by the bit of the movie I had seen ‘A Night At The Museum’. There was a huge line to pay another ‘suggested’ admission and when I looked at the plan, I didn’t really feel like visiting yet another museum. I bough a hot dog outside (not worth its money, but it’s a thing to do in New York) and then I took the train to 42St street. I wanted to walk around a bit near Times Square, but again the cold wind was killing me. I spent some time in the huge Toys R Us with the big internal wheel for kids and the moving tyrannosaurus. Very typical: a huge shop, but little diversity in the toys. It’s all Lego, Star Wars, GI Joe, Barbie… Very little board games. Then I headed to the Virgin Megastore, where I spent more time, until I realised I had to be at Jayte’s office.

Jayte works for Alvin Ailey, a very respected dance company. He used to be a dancer, but is now the head of the designer department who create the costumes for the performers. I really liked being in that building. I wanted to walk around and watch rehearsals and classes (as it’s also a dance school), but I wasn’t allowed. I did have some peeks in the rooms though. Lots of attractive dancers where walking around. I totally loved being there, but was immediately thinking about how I may have missed out on a career as a dancer. I spent some time next to a new costume maker, looking up some info for cheap tickets to the sun. Difficult!!!! But I also looked around and watched ‘behind the stage’ moments. Fun! Jayte and I went to eat at a cool place near his office, called Vinyl. I liked the place. I had the grandfather’s meatloaf, which was okay, but not extraordinary, but I just liked the interior. The menu card is written on old vinyl records from Olivia Newton John for instance; And the coolest thing is that they have four restrooms named after a celebrity singer. I had to go into Nelly’s toilet. Nelly is the rap singer of ‘Hot in Here’. As you are taking a rest, you hear his music and you’re looking at his little statue in a glass box. I also went to check out Dolly (Parton). Definitely worth checking out.

And that was basically my day in New York. It wasn’t really boring, but also not very exciting.

006 Amtrak ride

Ray was surprised to learn that I would prefer taking the train to New York than taking a flight. My god! If I can take a train why wouldn’t I take it? It’s like with the commuter bus! Watch your luggage! Don’t fall asleep! Those were his warning. Yeah. Sure, I’ll watch my stuff. But I’m on the train now and I’m surrounded by normal people. I’m in the quiet car, where talking and using the cell phone is prohibited. Cool! It’s pretty full. I got on the regional train from Washington to New York, which takes about 3,5 hours or so and I got on at the BWI airport as that’s where Ray flew to Atlanta from. It cost me 69 dollars, but if I would have bought it earlier it would have been cheaper. Anyways, the train was a few minutes late, but I didn’t care that much. The seat I’m sitting in is very comfortable. I actually really love it; Very spacious for a train and the overhead compartments are big enough for suitcases. I think a third of the people here are using a laptop. Some read. The majority is white, apart from the conductor. We just passed Philadelphia. I would have wanted to visit that city too, but I’ll do that some other time. With Hilde maybe. No, I’ve been on the train for almost two hours now and I can honestly recommend it to everyone!

005 Movies at the Mall

I decided to go to the mall in the afternoon. I had called mr and mrs Wolfe for a meeting, but they didn’t pick up the phone, so I bought a matinee ticket for The Pursuit of Happiness. I had called Evelyn and Harry the day before and they invited me for lunch, but I also had promised Ray to go to lunch with him, so we sort of decided to meet upon my return end of February.

The Pursuit of Happiness wasn’t really on my list of movies to see, but it was the first available movie, so I got in. Also because the trailer featured gorgeous images of San Francisco. It’s based on yet another true story of the American Dream: sales person with a lot of debts needs to take care of his son as his wife leaves him, as he is kicked out of his house and as he just started an internship as a stock broker. Whatever! BUT the acting was amazing! Will Smith, who I normally don’t like that much, was excellent. Thandie Newton was very expressive in her short part as the disappointed wife. And the little boy (Smith’s own son) was good too. The story was very drama, Hollywood drama, and after 100 minutes I had enough of seeing someone’s bad luck, even though I knew this story would have a happy end. But I also thought it was interesting to see that a movie about becoming homeless can be such a big hit. I was thinking how Ken Loach would have made that movie or de brothers Dardenne. In the end, this story is about a homeless father who has to seek refuge in shelters/ But their style will never reach a big audience and this movie does! Even though I hated the soundtrack and the typical emotional close ups of facial expressions. Still, the end, although very predictable, moved me. Great acting, Will!

This being a movie theatre in the States, I of course went into other rooms to see parts of the movies that were playing as well. I stayed for some 15 minutes in the two week box office topper Stomp The Yard. From what I’ve seen it’s the most ridiculous chart topper of the year. It’s some kind of dance movie with an all black cast about rival school gangs who do a streetdance/krumping performance on stage while stomping their feet on the wooden floor in an urban tap or line dancing style. It was horrible, especially the camerawork who tried to be ‘hip’ by showing some parts in slow motion and than fast forwarding the images. Awful. After that I went in to see that 200+ dollar box office hit A Night At The Museum. I left after half an hour or so as I had not laughed one single time and I was incredibly annoyed by the illogical storyline which is just an excuse for some visual affects. I didn’t even wait to see Robin Williams perform.

004 Washington Day 2


Washington is pretty big and the sightseeings are all spread out. The best way to plan your day is to take one of those hop on, hop off tours. There’s two of them. One is 20 dollar, the other 32 dollar (goes a little bit further). However, when I decided to do that it was already past 1 pm and the ticket sales people actually talked me out of doing the tour. I took the metro to the White House again, the north side this time, and then walked my way to the Washington monument. It’s basically nothing more than an obelisk. I wanted to take the elevator up, but the ticket booth was already closed. So get there in the morning if you want to go up! I decided to walk around the Mall, the name given to the huge park that connects the Capitol building with the Lincoln Memorial in the far end. I really wanted to see the Lincoln memorial as I somehow associate that with the capital. Especially since the underrated remake of Planet Of The Apes ended there. There’s no public transport getting you there. No metro, no bus. You either have to take one of those tours or walk!

The Lincoln Memorial itself I impressive, but it looks just like you expect it to look and there’s not much going on around it. I’m sure in the summer it’s filled with tourists and students laying in the sun! There’s a small museum there as well but the nicest thing is that you have a great view of the Washington Monument, being reflected in the pool that connects both monuments. Nearby you also have the memorials of the victims of the Vietnam war and the Korean war. There’s also a somewhat boring memorial for the victims of the Second World War. Anyways, there’s plenty of memorials and statues. I first started to take pictures of them, but after a day I had enough of them. I basically did a whole lot of walking in Washington, DC which I didn’t mind, but it would have been nicer if they had public transport to the Lincoln Memorial.

The next day I went back with the commuter bus, only to find out that there’s little to do before 11 am. All museums open late! And I was basically stuck in DC. I headed to the FBI building first, as I know someone who had visited the place. Unfortunately, the FBI no longer allows visitors. Another museum that I wanted to visit was ‘closed for renovation’. It was the American History museum, which appealed to me more than the art museums or the technical museum. I wanted to visit the National Portrait Gallery as well and the Spy museum, but they opened even later than 11 am. I ended up going inside of the Fort Theatre, where Lincoln was murder. Across the street there’s the house, where Lincoln died after being brought there. It’s all about Lincoln and Washington in DC. Not many other presidents are omnipresent there. I found it strange that I didn’t see anything of Bill Clinton. Not one single things reminded me of his legacy. Bush however is everywhere, which is a bit strange as 70 percent of the people in DC voted Democrat.

I took the metro to Foggy Bottom, which is the area around the white house and which I only remember because it was one of the questions in our vocabulary test at university and almost the entire class had no idea what it was. Anyways, it’s the last stop in DC and from there I walked to Georgetown, which is supposed to be the charming area of the city. Of course, it was called again and when I walked to the little Harbour front I didn’t see much charm. Nobody was out there, no life at all, all the sidewalk and river front bars were closed. But the rest of Georgetown was a bit more lively. There’s two shopping streets, with the usual stores (Barnes & Nobles, Urban Outfitters, Gap) and behind those streets you have a nice quiet residential area with beautiful building. At least for Americans. There’s this ‘old stone house’, which is the tourist draw of the street. But I passed it a few times not noticing there was anything old about it. I liked the canal that run there. I didn’t expect to see a small canal in the big city. But to be really honest, Georgetown wasn’t a gem. I’m sure it’s all more bustling in the summer, but I think I expected more of a student neighbourhood. I still don’t know where the second hand book and record stores are for instance. On my way to Georgetown, I did meet a nice guy who walked a bit with me. I love that about visiting the states, you always end up meeting people who like to talk to you. He suggested I also visited Dupont Circle neighbourhood, as there were a few second hand stores there. I did wanted to go to that place, but it was already pas 1.30 am and I wanted to visit a museum as well.

I also lost a lot of time in a travel agent store. STA travel. I ended up being the first ‘customer’ of a trainee, who just totally sucked. I came in with questions about Puerto Rico and Belize, but he started suggesting trips to Hawaii. Duh! Anyways, the women who was supervising him was cool and talked a bit about Belize, how she was robbed at gunpoint near the border with Guatemala. But that’s the ‘adventure’, she added. Yeah, cool, but I have a laptop now. I was a bit tired of walking so I took a bus back to the centre. Funnily enough it was very easy to get on the bus from Georgetown, although every single person I had asked told me it was impossible to get there with the public transport. Some people just don’t know their city I guess. Anyways, the bus broke down and we had to wait for another bus to pick us up.

There are several museums in Washington and most of them are free. Especially the Smithsonian museums, which is a name given to all the museums that used to belong to one person who gave his collection to the government. High on the wish lists of tourists is the technical museum, but I couldn’t care less. I ended up going to the National Gallery of Art. There’s two buildings, a west and an east building, which have a vast collection of all kinds of paintings. I made the mistake of wanting to visit the entire museum. I should have looked at the map first and then go to the parts which really interested me. I ended up seeing too many paintings and sculpture from European artists. None of them are master pieces and the visit started to bore me a bit, apart from seeing Rubens and Rembrandt! There was actually an extra exhibition on sketches by Rembrandt. I was also impressed by the work of Degas, who I was unfamiliar with. I especially liked his sculptures of ballerina’s. I had made an appointment with Amy, who was on my last trip in December and she wanted to meet quite early, so I had to rush through the building. Never good! That’s why I need to go back there. I didn’t get to see much of the American artists and some of the things I saw were interesting. No San Marco squares or flower fields with medieval castles in the back. No, Americans depicts other facets of life, like the life of the native Americans. Start your visit with those sections and do the European paintings when you have time! I also didn’t have much time to spend in the modern art section, although I did one floor upon entering the museum, which impressed me a lot. I actually like Modern art. I was surprised to like the paintings of Pollock. I guess I was not interested in his work because I don’t like Ed Harris who portrays him in his directorial debut, but I just found myself attracted to his paintings. There was also a painting from a Flemish artist, whose name I forgot, but was a collection of muscles glued together. I loved that. And of course you have Warhol and Liechtenstein, who is more famous the country with the same name. Yeah, I could have spent more time there.

I had an appointment with Amy though, who was one of the most charming people I had on my tours last year. Amy is maybe 27 or so and she’s married to Chad, who’s 31. they were travelling with their parents and Chad’s brother and sister-in-laws; The six of them were really cool and I took the kids out for some Belgian beer tasting in Nijmegen of all places! That was fun. Amy was very excited in talking about Washington DC. She asked me where I wanted to go and we headed to Dupont Circle. We didn’t really walk around there, but went into this cool book store with a restaurant in the back. An insider tip! For 15 bucks we got three different appetizers brought to us on three separate plates on a stack. A bit like tapas, but then in huge portions. We shared quesadillas, the house tacos with guacamole and some buffalo wings. It was a lot. Also cool was the refills of course. I drank Dr Pepper, but she came to refill it three times. Nice place. Amy is cool. We talked a lot. Funnily enough, I thought she worked in the Smithsonian building, but she works in the National Portrait Museum where I stood earlier in the morning for a closed door. Next time, she’ll let me in and I’ll have the museum for myself. Yeah, that sounds cool.

003 Washington Day 1



I was in Washington today. It was an interesting visit. I didn’t get to do what I wanted to do and I’ll need to go back to explore the city more. But it was fun. I was very lucky to stay in a hotel just opposite of a park and ride stop for commuters. In five minutes I was on the commuter’s bus to Washington, for a mere 4,25 dollar. I thought the commuter bus would be filled with people working in second rate jobs. But no! This is a commuter bus from Annapolis, which is a pretty rich area, so the bus was filled with just normal businesspeople who prefer commuting by bus than being stuck in the traffic jam. It felt very European.

The nice thing with this bus, was that I was able to take a bus ride in the city! Like a free sightseeing tour. I got off at the White House as that was the first stop on my list of things to see in Washington DC. It even rhymes. But much to my surprise, I couldn’t get in. Apparently, rules have changed and now you need to request a visitor’s pass six months before you visit Washington DC. Apparently at the Belgian Embassy in Washington, which doesn’t really make that much sense. But anyways. A bit frustrated, I did go to take a picture of the south side wing of the White House. It didn’t do much to me. All flags were half stock and I forgot to ask why. I think because president Ford died.

From the White House I walked down Pennsylvania Avenue which is lined with big government buildings. Actually the whole city is just one collection of Federal bureaus of something. The developer of the city was a Frenchman and it took decades to finalize his project. I have to say that I wasn’t that charmed by the look of the city. It’s impressive, no doubt, but there’s no charm. I thought I liked symmetrical, neo-classical buildings, but DC just has too much of them. And all the buildings look white and relatively new.

Capitol Hill is an impressive area though. I had heard about hours of waiting to get into the Capitol, but this is end of January and it’s cold, so I just could get on the next available tour. I met up with a Hong Kong student who lives in Montreal and started talking to two typical American women. Typical in the sense that they made a whole scene out of the fact that they could not take in food or drinks. Americans have this way of making scenes although it’s not really complaining as we know it in Europe. It’s more making a big deal out of something and getting some attention. Anyways, fine for us, because in stead of throwing it away she handed out chocolates and almond nuts. If I were a homeless person in Washington, DC, I would not move an inch from that garbage bin. The amount of food that is thrown away! Incredible. So, should you ever visit the Capitol, makes sure you have as little with you as possible. This is a rule for all buildings in Washington!

The visit of the Capitol was very interesting! I had an excellent tour guide who was informative and funny. I didn’t expect anything of the visit, but it really turned out to be a must. The inside of the Dom is amazing! Especially when you get to hear more information about the details of the fresco’s and the paintings and statues! The whole building is filled with 100 statues, 2 from each state! I was amazed how much I know about the American History, especially since some of the fellow tour takers had no idea what the guide was talking about. One person had never heard of general Lee for instance, the traitor to the North and the leader of the South in the Civil War. Amazing. The ugliest statue in the whole Capitol was given by the state of Hawaii. It was the statue of the Flemish missionary Father Damian!

I liked the entire visit. Especially the visit to the old House of Commons where the echo and the acoustics are amazing. The way the room was build unintentionally created an atmosphere that made it possible to hear everything the person across the room was whispering! Not so good for a room filled with politicians. It’s now filled with more statues. I was able to get into both the House of Commons and the Senate, which both looked incredible small. There was a lot of ‘On tv it looks so much bigger’ comments. I had hoped to see some famous politicians as it was the day of the State of the Union and there was a law being passed in the Senate about minimum wage/income. But no! No sights of hero of the moment: Senator Barrack Obama.

When I left the Capitol, the sun was out and it looked like a beautiful day. I didn’t want to visit a museum and just continued walking around the area, having a quick look into the Library of Congress (impressive reading room!) and the Court Of Justice. But by that time I was already fed up with the extreme security checks. Really, if you visit Washington, take as little as possible with you. Period. It’s worse than in an airport (or at a festival). I ended up at the huge Union Station, which again looked like it could be a big hub in a European city. I made the fist mistake of the trip by being lured into a 6,95 Buffet deal! I always too my tourists to one of those all you can eat buffets along the road. However, what I didn’t read was the small letters: per ounce. I ended up paying 15 dollar. I also bought my train ticket to go to New York. Excited to see how travelling by train will be like in the states. Another thing I bought in the Station (a day later) was the best muffin I’ve ever eaten. A cinnamon crumb muffin! It was so good that I thought for a moment to go back two blocks to get another one. But I didn’t.

Wednesday, January 24, 2007

002 Annapolis


I had never heard of Annapolis until a month ago, when I was seated next to Mr Mitchell during the Xmas dinner on our river cruise. He was quite a character, being the most fervent Republican I’ve ever met. You lived in San Francisco? Voluntarily? Nobody forced you to live in that shame city of our nation? That kind of guy. I asked him if his children voted Republican too. His answer was clear: I’ll use the whip if I hear they vote for the Democrats. I would disown them. A big mouth for sure. But also a funny guy who was entertaining. He used to be a tour guide in the Naval Academy in Annapolis and had invited me over.

When I contacted Ray to visit him in Atlanta, he told me he was working in Annapolis during the week! I was able to get a cheap ticket to BWI airport (Baltimore/Washington International) and now I’m staying in the Marriott Courtyard just outside of Annapolis. I had some delay yesterday, flying in from New York to Baltimore, because of the snow! Yes, it snows here. And quite a lot. Ray has a car at the airport as well, but we had trouble finding it, as all the cars were covered with snow.

Today, I went to the city centre. There’s a bus stop in front of the hotel that took me there quite easily. I had some trouble finding the Visitors Centre as it was relocated and the signs/locals sent me to several different spots. But I ended getting some nice information. And all for free! What a difference to cities in the Netherlands, where the tourist board charges 2 euro for an 8 sheet walking tour brochure.

Annapolis is the capitol city of Maryland, one of those small States that most people forget when they have to name American States. Baltimore is the big city of the State, which was one of the original 13 colonies that declared their independence. But it’s Annapolis that is the state capitol, just like smaller cities are the capital cities in other states too. The city is filled with houses of men who were of some importance during that revolutionary time. There’s the house of the only catholic who signed the Declaration of Independence. Or the house of the guy who patched the first American flag. I know, it’s not that interesting for us, old Europeans, but at least they try to give the city some historic charm. The city was the capitol of the country for a few years as well, before they created Washington DC.

But it’s a charming city. I reminded me of Portland, Maine (the small independent shops near a harbour) or Montpellier, Vermont (one main street and a few side streets) or the city in which McFly is skating in Back to the Future! The city has a state capitol and a few churches. But the charm comes from the unique stores on Main street and the harbour area. I was so eager to eat at Burger King or Subway, but I didn’t find any! They were all independent stores that didn’t ring a bell. I loved it! Not everything in the US of A is corporate. I went into this small independent record/dvd store, but I didn’t find anything interesting, apart from the first season of Oz for 15$. Unfortunately, I can only watch US dvd’s for a limited time on my laptop. I can only change from region three times. Good to know.

The main tourist attraction however is the Naval Academy near the old downtown. There’s not that much to see there, but I found it interesting. At least more interesting than Harvard for instance. At the visitor centre, you get a promo film about what the Academy stands for. It’s all about ‘midshipmen’. That word somehow appears everywhere. The big slogan is ‘to develop midshipmen morally, mentally and physically and to imbue them with the highest ideals of duty, honor and loyalty’. It’s an attractive propaganda clip and I can imagine a lot of people want to join the navy. Especially when senator John McCain for instance raves about his time on the academy.

The grounds look like a normal campus, with big sporting facilities (you can visit the swimming pool and the wrestling area, but unfortunately there were no sport activities when I was there). I did see the students though. I thought of asking some of them to pose for a picture, but that idea sounded a bit ridiculous. I walked in the main square when the students had to change classes. I felt out of place. All these kids wore their uniforms and I was the only tourist there. I don’t have a sailor fetish, so I didn’t feel in heaven, but I did find the whole atmosphere unique. There were a lot of women, according to the statistics only 20 percent, but of all the people I saw there at least half of them were female. I had some rebellious thoughts when I was walking around there. Like, how would they react if I would burn the huge American flag in front of the big hall? Or how would they react if I asked them in a Bruno-way about gay life on the academy? Hehe. (Bruno being Sacha Baron Cohen’s Austrian gay reporter character).

There’s a museum on the grounds as well with all kinds of uniforms and medals and information about important moments in history. It wasn’t that interesting, although I watched a movie about the cold war there. There’s also a chapel which has a stained glass window depicting a navy officer! It doesn’t always have to be a biblical figure. The old lady in the visitor centre told me the story of John Paul Jones, whose crypt is in the chapel. He was a Scottish immigrant who helped defeat the English during the Revolution war and wanted to set up a naval academy. However, the new American government wasn’t interested, so the Scott went to Russia and France, who also weren’t interested in his services. He died penniless in Paris and in order to commemorate him, the naval academy decided to get his bones in Paris and move them to chapel.

Annapolis also has a museum about African American history, as this was a port where the slaves were brought in, but it was closed. I did see a nice monument at the harbour front of Alex Haley, the writer who wrote that book on which the tv series Roots was based on. I didn’t see that many African Americans though. Annapolis is pretty Caucasian. And very friendly. Every single person I met on the street greeted me with a friendliness that you just can’t find in Europe. However superficial it might be, it’s great to be greeted!

Saturday, January 20, 2007

001 Back to the US of A

I can't help it. I will visit the usa again. There's plenty of countries out there that are worth visiting, but I somehow am again attracted to go to the states. A part of me feels forced to visit another country, but another part of me just wants to have a relaxed holiday.

I don't have a plan. It's 'up in the air' as one of my passengers wrote me, when I told him I have no idea when I would be in Miami. He's one of the many passengers who have invited me over to their homes in the States. I actually like the idea of visiting them. I really want to do a Home Hosted tour once. From Seattle to Miami or from Portland to San Diego. Or just from Coast to Coast. Other people have done it before me, like Bill Bryson for instance, a travel writer I would love to be associated with.

But for now, the plan is unclear. I fly to Baltimore Airport, where I'll meet an acquaintance who I once met in Brussels. He works in Annapolis and that's where I'll stay for a few days. Probably visit Washington DC which is nearby. And then I'm heading to New York, where I'll meet two other friends. But after that: one big question mark.

I"ll try to keep you updated...